Are your sexual fantasies wrong?
Is cheating forgivable? Is prostitution just a form of sexual release? Are you straight or queer? There's so much about sex that's unanswered all the time...

Sex is no longer a subject whispered into ears and subjected to muted conversations in corners. But how far can our fantasies take us?. The Men's Health Sex Survey 2013 aims to uncover the confusion of sexual boundaries and how far a man can really go the distance without throwing up judgements….Participate in this brief survey anonymously and watch out for results that could change your life (and teach you some new tricks too!)

Friends with benefits/flings
1. Do you think there's anything wrong with friends with benefits or flings?

Yes, because you can hurt someone
Yes, because it numbs your emotions
Yes, it acts as an easy rebound
All of the above
No
No, but I could never introduce such a girl/guy to my folks

2. Why would you enter such a relationship?

Because there's no emotional baggage
I don't require to dole out any special treatment
It saves time and energy
All of the above
It could end up in a real relationship

3. Do you think your self-respect takes a beating?

Yes, I feel a bit ashamed
No, my body has needs
I don't, but society looks at it differently

4. Friends with benefits should be...

Only with one person at a time
With as many people as possible
Two or three at a time isn't bad

5. Would or do you feel possessive about your friend if she/ he indulges in another relationship!

No
Yes
Depends on my partner

6. Would you reveal your status to your other friends?

Yes, there's nothing to hide
No, that's the point of this relationship
Not to women/ men I am interested in
Only to a select few who won't judge me

7. How far would you go out of your comfort zone?

No special treatment, it's just sex
Listen to his/ her problems
Help her/him in a rough financial situation

Live-in relationships
1.Do you abhor live-in relationships?

Yes
I don't, but my family does
No
I have been in one but I wouldn't again
I am in one currently
I don't mind it if she pulls her own weight financially

2.Why do you consider them immoral?

No sex before marriage
My parents thinks its wrong
I don't consider it immoral
There is no permanency in it

3. Why do you think live-in relationships fail?

Because of societal norms
They are often rushed into
There's a lack of accountability
There are no legal ramifications

Cheating
1. How many times have you cheated in your life?

Never
Once
Twice
Regularly

2. Is cheating worth the effort?

Totally!
No
Sometimes...

3. Would you do it again?

Yes
No
Depends on the situation

4. What does not count as cheating?

Porn
Flirting
Cyber sex with other women
When in different countries
When you're bored
All of the above

5. Why would you cheat?

If the relationship is broken
If I'm bored with my girlfriend sexually
It gives me an ego boost
It's the thrill of getting caught
I can't resist the temptation

6. Do you feel any moral qualms?

Yes, but only the first time
No
Sometimes but I ignore them
Yes all the time

7. What is more important: getting caught or hurting your partner?

Getting caught
Hurting my partner
Both
Both are irrelevant

Threesomes
1. Have you fantasised about threesomes?

Yes
Never

2. Do you find threesomes grotesque?

Yes
No
Not sure

3. Would you indulge in a threesome?

Yes
No, I only watch it online
Only if there were two girls
Only if there were two guys

4. What's it like to be in a threesome?

Amazing!
Very disappointing; it was an anti-climax

Homosexuality
1. Have you ever wanted to experiment with members of the same sex?

Yes
Yikes! Never!

2. Do you know if you are gay or straight?

Yes
No
Unsure

3. Do you consider homosexuality immoral?

Yes!
No
I'm indifferent.

4. Do you have any inhibitions about homosexual friends?

Yes
No
Not sure

5. Have you come out to your friends and family?

Only to my gay friends
Only to my straight friends
Only to family
None to both

6. What inhibitions do you have about homosexuals?

I'm scared they will come on to me
They are gross because they are unmanly/ too manly
I'm fine as long as they keep their distance
Their sexual orientation intimidates me

Pornography
1. Do you watch porn?

Never
Once or twice a month
Once a week
3-4 times a week
Once every day
As many times I can in a day

2.Did you stop it when you were dating someone?

Yes
No; why should I?

3.Why do you watch porn?

It's a release when I'm horny
It stimulates my sex life
More exciting than the real act
The women are better
I have nothing better to do

4.Do you consider it amounts to cheating?

Yes
No
Not sure

5.What turns you on most?

Ordinary girl-on-guy action
Lesbians
Role play
Gangbangs
Rough sex

Incest
1.Have you fooled around with a sibling as kids?

Yes
No

2.If yes, how old were you then?

10- 12
12-15
16-18
18-25
Above

3.How far have you gone?

Kissed
Felt each other's genital areas
Had sex

4.Did you feel it was morally incorrect?

Yes, I was ashamed
Yes, but it was an experience
No. I went with the flow
Don't know

5.Do you still fool around?

No
No, but I feel the urge to
Yes, but only foreplay
Yes we have sex

6.Did you have trouble identifying your emotions?

Yes, because I did not see it going anywhere
Yes, because you cannot 'love' your siblings?
I don't feel about him/ her that way, its just sex

Prostitution
1.Your first sex experience was with

Your girlfriend/ boyfriend
A prostitute/ gigolo
An older woman/ man
A relative

2.Why did you decide to pay for sex?

I wanted to experience it
Because I wanted to lose my virginity
I submitted to peer pressure
I was on vacation abroad and wanted to let loose
Regular sexual satisfaction

3.How many times have you slept with a prostitute/ gigolo?

We stick to oral sex
Once
2-3 times
3-6 times
7 and above
I've stopped counting

4.Have you had unprotected sex with a prostitute....?

Yes
No
Sometimes when I didn't have a condom
Sometimes when I couldn't be bothered to put one on

5.Rate the experience of paid sex

It was disgusting
I found it sexually satisfying, yet emotionally horrifying
I felt numb
It was satisfactory
I enjoyed it thoroughly

6.If you had to, would you tell your current partner that you have indulged in paid sex?

Yes, because it was in the past
No way, she'd/ he'd think I was cheap!
Maybe if she/ he was open enough

 

Personal Details

MALE / FEMALE

 

RELATIONSHIP STATUS

Single
Married
Committed relationship
Open relationship
 
 
Disclaimer: This is an anonymous survey.