Men are ready to jump in the sack at the drop of a hat, but it takes more than a mere striptease to turn us on. Add zing to your sex life. Here’s how.
By Pratishtha Dobhal
4. BACK UP:
While you can tell your guy to give you a massage to rid you of all those cramps and relax your overworked muscles, you can also reach a higher orgasmic place. The back is an underrated erogenous zone, and many women simply love having a man's tongue run down their spine. So, the next time your guy is working an appetite, make sure your back feels loved as well.
5. FOOT FETISH:
Usually feet are seen as being the lowest in the rung for anything sexual or intimate, but they are actually a great place to begin your sexual adventures from. Coming back home after a hard day’s work, the most relaxing thing to do is to just kick off those stilettos and get a foot massage. “My boyfriend who is home earlier than me is such a darling that usually after a bath, he gives me the most incredible foot massage, and gently sucks on my toes, hmm…it’s loverly,” says Lipika Khurana, 27, Lawyer. A large area in the brain receives sensations and signals from the feet, so paying attention to them is stimulating. Lightly kissing them is guaranteed to arouse you, so make sure he is not only practicing the art of worshipping the ground beneath your feet but your twinkle toes as well.
6. WHISPERING SOFT SOMETHING:
Women usually have extremely sensitive ears; soft feather touch can also get the nerve endings in a tizzy. Allow him to suck your earlobes and you’ll flip over the arousing sensation throughout your body. It’s no wonder that when we are on a night out, behind the ears becomes a spot where you’d use your most delicious smelling perfume almost unconsciously. While out and about next time round dab behind the ears, it’ll make whispering passé, and your ears will get undiverted attention from him, which actually is a bonus, because it’s you who’ll be under the flagrant spell.
7. WRIST RIGHT:
It’s probably the most unlikely erogenous zone, but most women get a kick out of having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their lovers. If he lightly strokes the underside of your forearm, don’t blame us for the consequences. Sucking on fingers is a huge turn on as well. "I couldn’t believe the first time he kissed the inside of my wrists, slowly licking it in a circular motion, I almost hit the roof,” says Bhawani, 27, fashion designer. Holding hands is so old world; it’s about taking the whole thing to another frenzied height.
HEAD ON:
Attention to your head can have amazing effects in the early stages of foreplay. You may be in such a trance while his hands are busy at work, you wouldn’t even know what hit you. When the scalp is massaged endorphins are released, which is what makes you feel relaxed. An interesting head massage device that is the current rage in UK, is a metallic, yet malleable head massager with tentacles (sounds bizarre; it doesn’t hurt at all though), which if you are in the mood for some mean street action while browsing through Camden street in London, must try for orgasmic spasms, even if it’s a stranger at work. |